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		<title>By: mona</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-1404</link>
		<dc:creator>mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 20:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Heidi! My heart my heart!</description>
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		<title>By: Heidi Kohler Nickerson</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-1396</link>
		<dc:creator>Heidi Kohler Nickerson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 14:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>correction-the hardest part of his patrols is NOT hearing the sound of his voice, for heavens sake I should always re-read before I post-pfft.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>correction-the hardest part of his patrols is NOT hearing the sound of his voice, for heavens sake I should always re-read before I post-pfft.</p>
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		<title>By: Heidi Kohler Nickerson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heidi Kohler Nickerson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 14:13:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all, I must say that Edmund Leighton is MY FAVORITE ARTIST! &quot;A fond farewell&quot; as you have posted is on my LIFE WISH LIST of paintings to have in my home. His painting &quot;The Accolade&quot; is also on the list. I absolutely love his magnificent renderings of days of chivalry and romance. Have you seen his painting of the mother holding her little toddler up over the edge of the castle to see the kingdom below? That one makes me cry if I look at it too long! And the beggar and the King? Aren&#039;t we all humbled by the great majesty of love? Oh, how I adore his work. Just thinking of his paintings brings tears to my eyes, they move me so profoundly. 

I enjoyed your entry. I have a similar entry in my blog, called Merry Go Round. It&#039;s a challenge to be sure.  Saying goodbye to my husband every three months or so, sometimes more sometimes less. Having him gone for another three months. The hardest part for me I think, is hearing the sound of his voice. (No phones on submarines, and my husband doesn&#039;t travel on the type that actually pull into ports, he&#039;s underwater, THE WHOLE TIME!) I find really creative ways to deal with my loneliness and longing. I write in conversation journals, I cut hearts out of paper and tape them all over the house every time I see something that reminds me of his love, or everytime I&#039;m just thinking of him, missing him. That one cheers me up like nothing else! Then I write blog entries about it ;) But most of all, I think of what a blessing it is that I have someone to miss like this. It is an acute reminder that I have a gift many others are deprived of. The days without him pass, no one can stop time, and he will always come home to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, I must say that Edmund Leighton is MY FAVORITE ARTIST! &#8220;A fond farewell&#8221; as you have posted is on my LIFE WISH LIST of paintings to have in my home. His painting &#8220;The Accolade&#8221; is also on the list. I absolutely love his magnificent renderings of days of chivalry and romance. Have you seen his painting of the mother holding her little toddler up over the edge of the castle to see the kingdom below? That one makes me cry if I look at it too long! And the beggar and the King? Aren&#8217;t we all humbled by the great majesty of love? Oh, how I adore his work. Just thinking of his paintings brings tears to my eyes, they move me so profoundly. </p>
<p>I enjoyed your entry. I have a similar entry in my blog, called Merry Go Round. It&#8217;s a challenge to be sure.  Saying goodbye to my husband every three months or so, sometimes more sometimes less. Having him gone for another three months. The hardest part for me I think, is hearing the sound of his voice. (No phones on submarines, and my husband doesn&#8217;t travel on the type that actually pull into ports, he&#8217;s underwater, THE WHOLE TIME!) I find really creative ways to deal with my loneliness and longing. I write in conversation journals, I cut hearts out of paper and tape them all over the house every time I see something that reminds me of his love, or everytime I&#8217;m just thinking of him, missing him. That one cheers me up like nothing else! Then I write blog entries about it ;) But most of all, I think of what a blessing it is that I have someone to miss like this. It is an acute reminder that I have a gift many others are deprived of. The days without him pass, no one can stop time, and he will always come home to me.</p>
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		<title>By: mona</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-113</link>
		<dc:creator>mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 05:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah E., The only hope of enduring any separation gracefully is keeping it in context...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah E., The only hope of enduring any separation gracefully is keeping it in context&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah E.</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-112</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah E.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 02:20:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Every time I read this post, I yearn to CLEAVE to my spouse. And yes, I have experienced brief episodes of my spouse&#039;s absence, but I have not endured like the real champions. I could go on and on about the small things I do to get through those separations, but I can&#039;t help but come back to the times I have picked my spouse up from the airport and about fallen over realizing, &quot;Hey, that guy is waiting for ME! Crazy! He likes me and is waiting for ME.&quot; I love that man and love you Ramona. 
May those separations be as BRIEF as humanly possible! 
With real love!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every time I read this post, I yearn to CLEAVE to my spouse. And yes, I have experienced brief episodes of my spouse&#8217;s absence, but I have not endured like the real champions. I could go on and on about the small things I do to get through those separations, but I can&#8217;t help but come back to the times I have picked my spouse up from the airport and about fallen over realizing, &#8220;Hey, that guy is waiting for ME! Crazy! He likes me and is waiting for ME.&#8221; I love that man and love you Ramona.<br />
May those separations be as BRIEF as humanly possible!<br />
With real love!</p>
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		<title>By: mona</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-104</link>
		<dc:creator>mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 19:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lois, so much of life has to be languish or laughter - you choose. Thank you for that reminder!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lois, so much of life has to be languish or laughter &#8211; you choose. Thank you for that reminder!!</p>
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		<title>By: Lois Brown</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-99</link>
		<dc:creator>Lois Brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In our 31 yrs of marriage there were only a few times of long absences from each other all 3 times were with a move and me having to stay behind to sell the home or stay with a premature baby while everyone else moved on etc.... the longest was for 6 months...too long in my opnion but I always try to see what I can learn from a situation and it always did make me appreciate him more and realize how much he does help and how much I do depend on him and that is never a bad thing.  The other times were much less dramatic.  My husbnad has almost always been a Scoutmaster and the only time he hasn&#039;t been a Scoutmaster he&#039;s in the Bishopric.  I am the mother of 3 girls and one of my daughters is disabled.  I was always glad that he had this opportunity to be with and &quot;Play&quot; with boys since we had none and it did take a lot of weekends and vacation time away from our family.  It was almost funny that every year after he would leave for Scout camp something big trauma would happen and of course he was way up in the mountains and unreachable....so I was on my own.  So it became a joke or a game with the girls and I to just wait for the &quot;the big thing&quot; to happen and then we could relax the rest of the time he was gone.  I have found that when your husband is in Puerto Rico for work and you are trying to sell your home and the water heater breaks and your pulling up carpets and sucking up water.....you just have to laugh!  I laugh about these times because in about 2 weeks they are the best stories and memories and your family has bonded!

Ramona, I emailed you back on your email about &quot;The Carousel&quot; what a wonderful and nervous time this all must be for you.  Go see it because I have a lot of questions.  Love you my dear!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our 31 yrs of marriage there were only a few times of long absences from each other all 3 times were with a move and me having to stay behind to sell the home or stay with a premature baby while everyone else moved on etc&#8230;. the longest was for 6 months&#8230;too long in my opnion but I always try to see what I can learn from a situation and it always did make me appreciate him more and realize how much he does help and how much I do depend on him and that is never a bad thing.  The other times were much less dramatic.  My husbnad has almost always been a Scoutmaster and the only time he hasn&#8217;t been a Scoutmaster he&#8217;s in the Bishopric.  I am the mother of 3 girls and one of my daughters is disabled.  I was always glad that he had this opportunity to be with and &#8220;Play&#8221; with boys since we had none and it did take a lot of weekends and vacation time away from our family.  It was almost funny that every year after he would leave for Scout camp something big trauma would happen and of course he was way up in the mountains and unreachable&#8230;.so I was on my own.  So it became a joke or a game with the girls and I to just wait for the &#8220;the big thing&#8221; to happen and then we could relax the rest of the time he was gone.  I have found that when your husband is in Puerto Rico for work and you are trying to sell your home and the water heater breaks and your pulling up carpets and sucking up water&#8230;..you just have to laugh!  I laugh about these times because in about 2 weeks they are the best stories and memories and your family has bonded!</p>
<p>Ramona, I emailed you back on your email about &#8220;The Carousel&#8221; what a wonderful and nervous time this all must be for you.  Go see it because I have a lot of questions.  Love you my dear!</p>
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		<title>By: Valerie M.</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-98</link>
		<dc:creator>Valerie M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 20:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so glad to see you&#039;re back to sharing your wonderful thoughts with all of us. :)

Sorry you&#039;ll be apart. I don&#039;t know how long at a time, but I&#039;d imagine it isn&#039;t easy. I hope that you stay busy with fun projects and that that time goes by quickly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so glad to see you&#8217;re back to sharing your wonderful thoughts with all of us. :)</p>
<p>Sorry you&#8217;ll be apart. I don&#8217;t know how long at a time, but I&#8217;d imagine it isn&#8217;t easy. I hope that you stay busy with fun projects and that that time goes by quickly.</p>
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		<title>By: mona</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-97</link>
		<dc:creator>mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 16:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lisa, Oh baby! I&#039;m a baby too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lisa, Oh baby! I&#8217;m a baby too!</p>
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		<title>By: mona</title>
		<link>http://www.monasmusings.com/across-hearts/#comment-94</link>
		<dc:creator>mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 16:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelsey, if you&#039;ve done it right together...it does NOT get easier...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelsey, if you&#8217;ve done it right together&#8230;it does NOT get easier&#8230;</p>
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